As each day goes by that I spend with my child, I start to realize how funny God is! I am very much a planner and stick by my plans. I get VERY frustrated when those plans are altered! Well, before Tanner was born I had already "planned" in my mind that Tanner would share his parents looks, get my book sense, and his father's personality. He was going to be a sweet child that cuddled and let mommy read books all day long!I realize that it was ridiculous of me to think and "plan" that. Like I said God is funny. Needless to say, sometimes I feel like I am looking into the mirror! He is very smart, almost too smart. My son has figured out how to cheat at hide and go seek, how to fool mommy that he wasn't doing anything, and how to win anyone he meets over with his precious smile. I also have noticed that he has picked up some of my not so great characteristics. He is very much like me as a child! This baby at 11 months can be more stubborn than anyone I have ever met. When he has made up his mind, there is no changing it! While he can be an absolute cuddle bunny when he wants, he is straight up ALL BOY! Like I was, he can keep up with any kid, no matter the size. When he plays, he plays hard and nonstop! Nothing scares this child. He thinks it is funny to try to dive off our bed! So as I said before, God is funny. He first made sure I knew that His plans were the only ones that mattered and then second gave my child every characteristic that used to drive my parents crazy. Mom used to say "I hope your child is just like you when you were little;" she would be glad to know that I look into a mirror everyday and see me as a child staring back!
While sometimes Tanner can be just like his mama, he is very much like his father! He has his dad's tender heart when he pulls me close to give a big tight hug. My sweet baby has his father's love of golf. He loves to play and watch it. He has his dad's common sense when he figures out something after being showed only once!
I would not change my child for the world. I love the little person he is becoming! Every little detail and characteristic was given to him by God to make the wonderful baby that he is. I love that we explore each new day learning something different together!
Thursday, February 23, 2012
Sunday, January 22, 2012
Loving Those Teeth
Tanner has recently cut his FOURTH tooth! I am so very glad that it has finally came through! He has such a time cutting them for some reason. Well, considering that he has four teeth, it was time we started brushing them. I was not looking forward to this challenge and didn't think it would come so soon. He does not like me to look at his teeth, much less brush them. So grudgingly I break out the toothbrush to get started. As he is laying on the changing table I explain to him what I am about to do (as if he understands!) I go to start brushing and he actually OPENS his mouth for me. The more I brush around on his teeth and gums, the more he likes it! This makes me thrilled to death. So now every time I get out the tooth brush to get started, he gets excited and kicks and laughs. Such a sweetie pie! It is definitely the little things that count in life and make your day!
Thursday, January 19, 2012
Enjoying These Moments
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I read the above article today that my friend (Stephanie Ann Coleman) posted. It was a great article. It basically stated that so many times when new moms are out and about they are often told to "enjoy every moment" and "they don't stay that little forever." While these statements are very true, it is also not realistic. When you have small children not every moment is enjoyable or even manageable for that matter!
I totally agree with the article! Sometimes as a parent it isn't easy (believe it or not) and you are tired, ill, and just worn slap out! There are days when you are glad bedtime is finally here. There are meals where you want to pull hair out. Then you have the moments that you sit there and just hold them close while they are sleeping, laugh as they discover a new trick, or listen as they talk about nothing very important. THOSE are the moments that make all others just fade away. THOSE are the moments that you "enjoy and cherish forever!" It doesn't matter what struggles I may face from day to day raising a child, at the end of the day there NOTHING better than being called Mommy! To me that is one of the best descriptors I could ever have! I strongly suggest you read the article above, it is wonderful!
I read the above article today that my friend (Stephanie Ann Coleman) posted. It was a great article. It basically stated that so many times when new moms are out and about they are often told to "enjoy every moment" and "they don't stay that little forever." While these statements are very true, it is also not realistic. When you have small children not every moment is enjoyable or even manageable for that matter!
I totally agree with the article! Sometimes as a parent it isn't easy (believe it or not) and you are tired, ill, and just worn slap out! There are days when you are glad bedtime is finally here. There are meals where you want to pull hair out. Then you have the moments that you sit there and just hold them close while they are sleeping, laugh as they discover a new trick, or listen as they talk about nothing very important. THOSE are the moments that make all others just fade away. THOSE are the moments that you "enjoy and cherish forever!" It doesn't matter what struggles I may face from day to day raising a child, at the end of the day there NOTHING better than being called Mommy! To me that is one of the best descriptors I could ever have! I strongly suggest you read the article above, it is wonderful!
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
It Has Been a While!!
Okay, so I realize that it has been a few months (4 months to be exact!!) I feel like a horrible mom! A lot has happened in 4 months! Tanner is now crawling, has four teeth, eating all kinds of homemade baby food, and is into everything! Instead of trying to go back and fill in the blanks, I am just going to pick up from today!
Today Tanner has his 9 month check up! He had a great report. He weighed 20 pounds and 28.5 inches long. He is in the 75% for height and 25% for weight. My sweet baby is on target for all of his "goals." Great news!
While at the doctor today, I guess I experienced my first real "frustration" with other parents! We get to the office, sign in, and go sit in the waiting room. While we are there, there are two other families with their children. One of their kids is EVERYWHERE! Going into stranger's purses, taking people's drinks, and then come up and decided to put his hands in Tanner's face trying to touch him and get Tanner's hat. Well, being the mom I am, I nicely said, "Ohhhh don't touch." I guess being a teacher, I don't mind correcting other's kids if they don't! Well, during all of this, the mother just sits there and says "He is always like this at the doctor's office!" I wanted to to tell her that just because he always does this, doesn't mean it is acceptable!! Ugh! Control your kids!
Some parents in society don't realize how hard they make it for us to raise our own children with discipline. It is so frustrating when you try to instill good behaviors and morals in your child, but then they see others who can do what ever! How do you explain to them that some kids are not taught how to behave in public! I am not saying they have to sit perfectly still and quiet, but at least respect other's space and belongings. How hard is that to teach! I guess that is where us teachers come into play, and we just teach it in the classroom!
I apologize if I stepped on someones toes or offended you, but this is how I feel about the situation.
Today Tanner has his 9 month check up! He had a great report. He weighed 20 pounds and 28.5 inches long. He is in the 75% for height and 25% for weight. My sweet baby is on target for all of his "goals." Great news!
While at the doctor today, I guess I experienced my first real "frustration" with other parents! We get to the office, sign in, and go sit in the waiting room. While we are there, there are two other families with their children. One of their kids is EVERYWHERE! Going into stranger's purses, taking people's drinks, and then come up and decided to put his hands in Tanner's face trying to touch him and get Tanner's hat. Well, being the mom I am, I nicely said, "Ohhhh don't touch." I guess being a teacher, I don't mind correcting other's kids if they don't! Well, during all of this, the mother just sits there and says "He is always like this at the doctor's office!" I wanted to to tell her that just because he always does this, doesn't mean it is acceptable!! Ugh! Control your kids!
Some parents in society don't realize how hard they make it for us to raise our own children with discipline. It is so frustrating when you try to instill good behaviors and morals in your child, but then they see others who can do what ever! How do you explain to them that some kids are not taught how to behave in public! I am not saying they have to sit perfectly still and quiet, but at least respect other's space and belongings. How hard is that to teach! I guess that is where us teachers come into play, and we just teach it in the classroom!
I apologize if I stepped on someones toes or offended you, but this is how I feel about the situation.
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